…and how did Mother’s Day originate?
Some of my favourite memories as a kid were the special times I spent with my mother. She worked most nights, so my dad was the one in charge of dinner, bath and bed. But once a month mum would have a night off from work and this night was extra special. Mum would make apple strudel for dessert, be the one to tuck us into bed and tell us a special story about her childhood.
Every Sunday we had a roast lunch, and we would spend the afternoon watching Shirley Temple movies on T.V. When I was 9, mum taught me how to knit. And one of my funniest memories was how she sang an Elvis Presley song on an Australian national radio network so that I could win a rare Pearl Jam Live in Melbourne C.D.
These moments will forever live in my heart.
When I think about the legacy I want to leave my children, I think about the memories my mum created for me. I want my kids to have special moments with me that they treasure. I want them to remember the cuddles in bed on a Saturday morning in the middle of winter. I want them to remember the times I’ve been able to hear them read at their school assembly. I want them to remember the funny conversations we’ve had over breakfast, and the cute nicknames I have given them.
Its easy for us to get caught up in our busy lives and forget the importance of special moments.
Being unbusy helps us return to simpler times, and allows us the freedom to live in the present moment and cherish life’s gifts.
This Mother’s Day, let’s forget about everyday stresses, housework and deadlines:
-Let’s hold onto our children a little bit longer
-Let’s smile at our children’s thoughtfulness, as we look through their handmade cards and sentimental gifts
-Let’s tell our own mothers and grandmothers how much we love them and appreciate all they have done for us
-Let’s think about the mothers and grandmothers that are no longer with us.
Unbusy moments are what memories are made of.
Feel free to share some special moments between you and your mother, or you and your children, in the comments section below.
Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers and may you have a day that you cherish forever!
And while we are on the subject of Mother’s Day:
How did Mother’s Day originate?
The modern version of Mother’s Day originated in the early 20th century, when West Virginian Anna Jarvis wanted to honour her late mother Ann Reeves Jarvis who was a peace activist and helped soldiers from both sides of the American Civil War. Anna campaigned to make Mother’s Day a nationally recognised holiday, which happened in 1914. However, as years went by, the holiday became overly commercialised, much to the dismay of Jarvis. She protested and made her opinions about the matter known to greeting card companies, confectioners and florists (to no avail). She even resorted to failed law suits and boycotts. She wanted Mother’s Day to be about sentiment and not profit, and wanted people to write letters to their mothers expressing love and gratitude.